The problem is that most men exert self control, however, many men are teetering on the edge and the sight of a bit flesh can push them over the edge.  An edge that they would find extremely hard to return from.  Men are very much turned on by what they see.

You want to test a mans self control when hes lost it? ask your man for a diamond ring just before he reaches orga$m with the threat of not continuing.  Youll get what you want.

Before anyone accuses me of saying women deserve it if they provoke it, let me state that no woman deserves it.  However, they can take steps to minimise the risks.