Thanks FlyingAce. The thing is, I've tried breaking up with her before...several times... and that didn't work too well. I need to pick up my stuff- take her to the mall and end it so she doesn't cause a scene.

In the end I just feel so damn guilty because she's heartbroken and I guess I just feel too sorry for her. I got used to helping her and her taking me for granted and always depending on me. I guess I can finally breathe after this situation is over and I make a decision.