queen dee there are a lot that is hidden from a woman by men. As for your points which you made:

Control the sack is a misnomer as if denial is there the man will look elsewhere

You are allowed to get away with whatever it is --perceptions!!

admirable job of woman. No one can do it better. cleaning cooking bearing children and a lot lot more

Women only know of the income as revealed. A lot many men never do reveal.

There is a saying. Never ask a woman her age and never ask a man what he earns.