Yes FS when you look closer at any real happy marriage or perceived happy ones it is a very smart, shrewd and sensible woman who really controls everything. She keeps her husband in line who would do exactly as she says plus keeps the inlaws and close family very happy.
She would have all of them eating out of her hands but it will all be totally invisible. If someone even says that she is the one who is the controller or the boss--there would be disbelief or incredulity on every ones face.. WHO ?? HER?? No way. He husband is way too strong.
But reality is that she is the silent force behind everything and never undermines the male ego or position anywhere. And she will have her husband singing her tunes all the time.
Yes FS when you look closer at any real happy marriage or perceived happy ones it is a very smart, shrewd and sensible woman who really controls everything. She keeps her husband in line who would do exactly as she says plus keeps the inlaws and close family very happy.
She would have all of them eating out of her hands but it will all be totally invisible. If someone even says that she is the one who is the controller or the boss--there would be disbelief or incredulity on every ones face.. WHO ?? HER?? No way. He husband is way too strong.
But reality is that she is the silent force behind everything and never undermines the male ego or position anywhere. And she will have her husband singing her tunes all the time.