I'm not stretching anything to justify polygamy, our religion Islam already has!
Now if I thought like a woman, I would be against understanding polygamy or mans nature, just like you are, but i'm not, i'm choosing to try to understand the nature of man from a neutral point of view.
You see PM, the thing is we're not discussing polygamy forced on to the unhappy recipients. I hope I'm not bursting you're bubble when I remind you that harps don't play and angels don't sing in prelude to bedroom gymnastics, nor do the vows 'to have and to hold, untill death do us part' hold any guarantee of fidelity or happiness to men or women.
As shown in the video clip this thread is about, this mans wives weren't duped under false pretences since they entered their polygamous marriage willingly.
Yes indeed, many women aren't happy about sharing their husbands, the undisputed fact remains that there are many examples of women who enter polygamy either for practicality or convenience.
What this thread is about and what I am discussing isn't the women who voluntarily enter polygamous marriage, it's simply attempting to understand why men do?
Historical and current, regardless of social background, experience, nationality, creed, race in all their diversity, many men display strong tendencies towards polygamous or bigamous or adulterous behavior at some point in their lives, much more than women do.
I'm looking into why this phenomenon occurs, can we link it to how men are designed emotionally or physically? Drawing from comparisons between the bodies of men and women built for propagation of the human species and since the bodies of women have gestatiatory/nurturing period's, hence men are not physically or instinctually as inconvenienced as women are, then perhaps this is a factor that affects his view and subsequent role when partnering? I discussed this in my previous post..
If there is evidence, then as with many things found in Islam, it too has offered a solution for those who apparently seek one. I don't know why often one expects and looks at the Quran as a book written according to the limited human understanding?
It is a book written divinely about humans and for humans authored by their creator.
NB In the Quran, polygamy in an option for men AND women, taking into practical understanding the nature of man, giving women a fairer solution and reminding man of this balance: The creator understanding the nature of man, in the same Quranic verse reminds him of a balance.
Possibly as a reminder to help curb his instincts or his nature yet at the same time offers the fairest option for those who want it.
NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.
I'm not stretching anything to justify polygamy, our religion Islam already has!
Now if I thought like a woman, I would be against understanding polygamy or mans nature, just like you are, but i'm not, i'm choosing to try to understand the nature of man from a neutral point of view.
You see PM, the thing is we're not discussing polygamy forced on to the unhappy recipients. I hope I'm not bursting you're bubble when I remind you that harps don't play and angels don't sing in prelude to bedroom gymnastics, nor do the vows 'to have and to hold, untill death do us part' hold any guarantee of fidelity or happiness to men or women.
As shown in the video clip this thread is about, this mans wives weren't duped under false pretences since they entered their polygamous marriage willingly.
Yes indeed, many women aren't happy about sharing their husbands, the undisputed fact remains that there are many examples of women who enter polygamy either for practicality or convenience.
What this thread is about and what I am discussing isn't the women who voluntarily enter polygamous marriage, it's simply attempting to understand why men do?
Historical and current, regardless of social background, experience, nationality, creed, race in all their diversity, many men display strong tendencies towards polygamous or bigamous or adulterous behavior at some point in their lives, much more than women do.
I'm looking into why this phenomenon occurs, can we link it to how men are designed emotionally or physically? Drawing from comparisons between the bodies of men and women built for propagation of the human species and since the bodies of women have gestatiatory/nurturing period's, hence men are not physically or instinctually as inconvenienced as women are, then perhaps this is a factor that affects his view and subsequent role when partnering? I discussed this in my previous post..
If there is evidence, then as with many things found in Islam, it too has offered a solution for those who apparently seek one. I don't know why often one expects and looks at the Quran as a book written according to the limited human understanding?
It is a book written divinely about humans and for humans authored by their creator.
NB In the Quran, polygamy in an option for men AND women, taking into practical understanding the nature of man, giving women a fairer solution and reminding man of this balance: The creator understanding the nature of man, in the same Quranic verse reminds him of a balance.
Possibly as a reminder to help curb his instincts or his nature yet at the same time offers the fairest option for those who want it.
NUCLEAR WEAPONS: IF AMERICA AND ISRAEL CAN HAVE THEM - THEN SO SHOULD IRAN.