but they do tell me that they get some from their grandparents which makes me mad at my parents.

You see, me and my siblings did pass those militaristic method of parenting from my father who believes in spanking as form of discipline. Well, it was how my father's parents disciplined them when they were kids so we (the next generation got the taste of this too). So, I said, my kids won't experience that...and they never did.

But this topic is PUBLIC HUMILIATION which would definitely destroy a child's self-esteem and confidence. The more the kid would tend to be rebellious just to get back at the parent....tsk tsk tsk...