first of all, dont say anything if u dont know the whole story or u dont know me at all...he respect me the way the lady should be respect, never we had premarital sex for 5 years thats why i trusted & love him so much..we got married coz he proved that he loves me & he is different BUT one thing i forgot, he cant dis-obey his family / tradition...family really wants to marry his neighbor & i cant take anymore what they are saying about my race so much better for me to get divorce & not take even single riyal from him...proving NOT ALL FINGERS ARE THE SAME