All I know is that ANY man who puts his hands on a women is a punk and a coward!!!! Unless it is in self defense and even the normally you can maybe hold her hands until she is tired of trying to struggle. Honestly the best thing to do is walk away and clear your head, then try to talk like mature adults. I have to say this one more time ANY man that puts his hands on a woman is a COWARD!!!! If I offend anyone by saying that then I guess your one of the cowards.