first and foremost you have agreed for 1 day-off which only means one whole da. secondly is it agreed between both of you that she would be a nanny as well? i guess not, so don;t pass your responsibility of being a mother to your maid. and yes for me you are being mean to her.

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compasionate with the aged, tolerant of the weak. Someday you will have been all of these."