I understand the agony of not being able to have a baby just when one wants to and the power of that urge to have one's own biological child (four years of tests, operations and a stillbirth at 8 months) before finally having my second child. Even having gone through all that I wouldn't have wanted to adopt I'm afraid and while surrogacy wouldn't have been for me I can understand that for others it may work.
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"There's this thing called being so open-minded your brains drop out". - Richard Dawkins