He didn't want kids when we married, as he had two from a previous marriage.

I was only 23 and too in love to think of the consequenses.

After we made the dicision, and I changed my mind 3 years later, he started saying, lets see next year, eventually, by the time I was 30, I realised he wouldn't change his mind, so our marriage dissolved.

We are still really close friends.... so its sad, but he knew that I wanted kids desperately, so he let me go....

However, some other cracks also appeared so in the end, it worked out for the best....