All i can conclude to your comments (psycological answer): the meaning of love is based on the feeling that is/are experienced by the person defining it. because if you had bad memory of what u called love, then u will tell that Love sucks bigtime! but if its good, then u will say good things about it. right? corect me if im wrong because i think its correct. hehe. (but lets accept that life is not always happy, many trials will come & we must face it..)