I agree with Alexa, even though I don't have children yet. Love is unconditional, and the love between two people in a marriage or what have you, can never be unconditional.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
dont know kelly...must be out of boredom i guess...
starseed, you want to laugh more, i have the love story of Darude on my PM..now if i get this right, if someone could read other's PM, then hmmmm, darude's love story should be posted here long time ago.. right, wolf?...:D
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haha. that is why you have no good memory of love, you dont have time with the love you call scrap. (that is you experience on it as a scrap. and all opinion are correct).
all comments are based on experience. (for you if its sucks bigtime, then so be it because maybe u dont experience love at all or you get hurt in love in some process.. ryt?)
so now we are three...wonder when we are going to get over this..:D huhuhu it takes time...a lot of time..until we can say love is is is..couldn't also put it into words..nah, nvm..
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find the right one.. you'll see, you will change your mind one day. I do pray that you will find him/her :) We are meant to be with a soul mate in life. No man [woman] is an island.
What the hell is love just tell me some feeling for short time and then break up and divorce and blah blah blah it will make you weak a low life jerk pathetic soul LOVE SUCKS BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG TIME.
All i can conclude to your comments (psycological answer): the meaning of love is based on the feeling that is/are experienced by the person defining it. because if you had bad memory of what u called love, then u will tell that Love sucks bigtime! but if its good, then u will say good things about it. right? corect me if im wrong because i think its correct. hehe. (but lets accept that life is not always happy, many trials will come & we must face it..)
try to cure the pain by converting it to joy and happiness.
I have seen people doing that. They were into body modification and BDSM and for every pain inflicted they would feel the adrenaline rush and the pain would go away. and a time comes when they stop feeling the pain and it is all the adrenaline rush. Our body also has the ability to produce its own pain killers called endorphins.
is that whay you mean by converting the pain to joy and happiness?
but sadly, sometimes this "gradually or eventually" period makes you give up...and forget what you have been fighting for (love)..so how can you attain love and happiness if during that phase you already gave up...(so where is this discussion leading to hmmmm? ..:P )
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do you expect me to know more than what the researchers know :D
Love is simply forgetting youself to bring happiness to those who important to you happy. You would expect something in return. Even if the counter side did not reciprocate, you still love.
In simple words. love is the contrary to selfishness
I agree with you. Love sucks. A newborn baby loves breasfeeding so he "sucks". Alternatively if the mother is keen about her sexy boobs then the newborn will love his milk bottle and "sucks" it :)
Here is my contribution. Thanking wikipedia :D
Love is a constellation of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. The meaning of love varies relative to context. Romantic love is seen as an ineffable feeling of intense attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction and intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships. Though often linked to personal relations, love is often given a wider connection, a love of humanity, of nature, with life itself, or a oneness with the universe, a universal love or karma. Love can also be construed as Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and, more casually, great affection for anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, to include activities and foods. This diverse range of meanings in the singular word love is often contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the concept's depth, versatility, and complexity.
love from someone who has spent his life growing up in the hands of a maid and who spent a big part of his life living in hostels and residence halls and meeting new people after every four months. How can you expect love from someone who learned the tricks and the trade and life by falling and hurting himself on every step and then vowing never to depend on anyone
Working visa turned into LOVE. Gosh!! don't we all want to breathe love for life...
Zero_cool, we are so sorry!!
Knox... I know and understand what you are talking about. Love makes you feel weaker and less secure because you feel your mood, life and feeling are dependent on someone else.
You feel less powerful because you are sharing with another.
You feel insecure waiting for the bad to happen. Whatever that might be.
So, you end up covering up your heart and molding it into steel, making sure you keep it intact to your self under your chest.
it is highly impossible that i will ever fall in love. i might one day be attracted to someone physically but the feeling of love, the purity of love, the passion of love, i highly doubt will ever come to me
at my life after 20 years i will see many people coming in and out, with some leaving a mark and some leaving their stains. But the big question for me would be what role did i play and how good was my performance
I was highly popular during my high school, but i rejected every girl's friendship at that time. as i have never met a girl who has been able to ignite my feelings. i dont know why i just like talking to people. be it guys or girls and then thats all. Whenever a girl has approached me i have felt that if i ever said that i love her, it would mean that i am losing a part of myself and insecurity prevailed. so i have never been in love
i have had many friends. friends who have emailed me, called me but i have never replied them back. I make new friends and forget the old ones. and the cycle goes on
i have made friends in different countries and have lost touch with them all. call me insecure
This is hypocrisy, greed, ill intention, personal- interest seeking...that is no where near love.
Love is transparent with no stains because you ask for nothing in return.
Be it loving your mother, Allah (God), friend, wife, colleague, human, cat....etc, still it is unconditional stream of running softness, even if not confessed to the other party.
I think you just have been using the wrong term.
"Love makes you feel the pain of too much tenderness"
which love are u talking about? motherly love, fatherly love, and all other types of love are attracted to money. I was reading desperate's comments in which he has talked about love. you do remember his posts?
All the hollywood stars are loved by their parents just bcoz they have money.
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why is it called FALL in love ... is it caz u stumble or fall flat on your face
If you can't change your fate, change your attitude.
I agree with Alexa, even though I don't have children yet. Love is unconditional, and the love between two people in a marriage or what have you, can never be unconditional.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
remember the "LOVE SUCKS BIGTIME!" comment? that will explains why. (",)
Thought when we have grandchildren
and you will know how love sucks when they grow up.....lol
do it right - the first time!
explain everything what dandy?...mind still too slow..can you elaborate further?..:D
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haha, u got the love story of darude? that expalin evertying now. haha.
yap maybe i will do that. just wait and read it after 10 years.agreed? lol.
hasnt ur new island never been colonised yet ???
(pun intended) lol
do it right - the first time!
dont know kelly...must be out of boredom i guess...
starseed, you want to laugh more, i have the love story of Darude on my PM..now if i get this right, if someone could read other's PM, then hmmmm, darude's love story should be posted here long time ago.. right, wolf?...:D
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Tropical destination
damn it really must be hot i should get my some drinks with me :D
oh are there any vallies too LOL
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haha. that is why you have no good memory of love, you dont have time with the love you call scrap. (that is you experience on it as a scrap. and all opinion are correct).
made me laugh
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
What brought this thread up once again?
Anyhow, did you reach at a definitin?
Good luck dandy. Tell us your story after 10 years
I'm tropical. A great tourist destination.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
lol gypsy...and darude, i don't believe you, i still got your love story PM..;P...want me to share them here?..lol
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you are Island??? are there any trees hills dunes bushes :D
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i really really got no time for this love its a holy craaaaaaaaaaap. got better things to do than that so called love.
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I'm an Island. The Ilse de Gypsy. I used to be a colony of Britain but now I'm an independent Carribean state.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
all comments are based on experience. (for you if its sucks bigtime, then so be it because maybe u dont experience love at all or you get hurt in love in some process.. ryt?)
so now we are three...wonder when we are going to get over this..:D huhuhu it takes time...a lot of time..until we can say love is is is..couldn't also put it into words..nah, nvm..
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find the right one.. you'll see, you will change your mind one day. I do pray that you will find him/her :) We are meant to be with a soul mate in life. No man [woman] is an island.
~ your thoughts create your reality ~
What the hell is love just tell me some feeling for short time and then break up and divorce and blah blah blah it will make you weak a low life jerk pathetic soul LOVE SUCKS BIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIG TIME.
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Nah, I'm of the opinion that it sucks big time too Owen. Though it is fun for short periods of time.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
guess that i'm the only one who said love sucks bigtime (and oh darude)..anyway, right on that...more on logically speaking..:D
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All i can conclude to your comments (psycological answer): the meaning of love is based on the feeling that is/are experienced by the person defining it. because if you had bad memory of what u called love, then u will tell that Love sucks bigtime! but if its good, then u will say good things about it. right? corect me if im wrong because i think its correct. hehe. (but lets accept that life is not always happy, many trials will come & we must face it..)
Love can drive you crazy. Both in a good way and a bad way.
"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco
love is,,, when your hurt.
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never trust a cold lips
Since there is no word that can truly describe what love is, I'm just gonna say that Love is a beautiful feeling.
Note: don't try to explain what love is to somebody that has never been in love.
why are guys calling me on this thread?...hehehehe..ok leo whatever you say...:D
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hmmm love becomes painfull when you expect something back... So the true love shoud be unconditional....
hhhmmmmmmmmm........love? to me, love is a sign from heaven that we are here for a reason....
---------------where there is friendship, there is NO 'hurt feelings':)--------------------
Love is not blind, it can see but it doesn't mind....
as the loved person is covered in layers and layers of makeup and foundation
:))
Love is blind and Lovers cannot see....
simple as that!:D
That is hurting self and damaging what the Lord created. Am not talkig about that DBSM thing
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try to cure the pain by converting it to joy and happiness.
I have seen people doing that. They were into body modification and BDSM and for every pain inflicted they would feel the adrenaline rush and the pain would go away. and a time comes when they stop feeling the pain and it is all the adrenaline rush. Our body also has the ability to produce its own pain killers called endorphins.
is that whay you mean by converting the pain to joy and happiness?
but sadly, sometimes this "gradually or eventually" period makes you give up...and forget what you have been fighting for (love)..so how can you attain love and happiness if during that phase you already gave up...(so where is this discussion leading to hmmmm? ..:P )
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and try to cure the pain to gradually convert it to joy and happiness and comfort
true, but still love is equally synonymous with pain...i don't know, for me loving means that i have also to look forward with pain...
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do you expect me to know more than what the researchers know :D
Love is simply forgetting youself to bring happiness to those who important to you happy. You would expect something in return. Even if the counter side did not reciprocate, you still love.
In simple words. love is the contrary to selfishness
grrr...you really are a naughty dad...not fair, you should define love base on what you have experienced and try to avoid wikiped...
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I agree with you. Love sucks. A newborn baby loves breasfeeding so he "sucks". Alternatively if the mother is keen about her sexy boobs then the newborn will love his milk bottle and "sucks" it :)
Here is my contribution. Thanking wikipedia :D
Love is a constellation of emotions and experiences related to a sense of strong affection or profound oneness. The meaning of love varies relative to context. Romantic love is seen as an ineffable feeling of intense attraction shared in passionate or intimate attraction and intimate interpersonal and sexual relationships. Though often linked to personal relations, love is often given a wider connection, a love of humanity, of nature, with life itself, or a oneness with the universe, a universal love or karma. Love can also be construed as Platonic love, religious love, familial love, and, more casually, great affection for anything considered strongly pleasurable, desirable, or preferred, to include activities and foods. This diverse range of meanings in the singular word love is often contrasted with the plurality of Greek words for love, reflecting the concept's depth, versatility, and complexity.
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i have contributed my share up there...love sucks big time!..i mean really...
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No no! Go ahead you can add to this silliness too!
LOLZ
H. Bennis
LOVE is energy; it sustains all form and formlessness; our true identity.
No wonder after "making love" you are so out of energy and exhausted
--wrong post--
As per the rules I cannot adopt unless and until I am married or in a long term relationship with a girl
please adopt :P
L.O.V.E = Let Older Volunteers Educate
H. Bennis
LOVE is energy; it sustains all form and formlessness; our true identity.
Love lives in the Heart. It is the Glue of the Universe. It is a Soul quality.
karin. so you want to mean love is expensive !!!
LOVE is loving someone at your own expense!
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My visa will expired soon and dont have any job yet. hahaha.
I will place my self to the legal one. Thanks for the reminder Apple.
refer to my first post then:)))
why are you asking?
Yeah i've changed it.. sounds like people out here needs to know what love is.. :)
But i reaaly want to know how true is the selling of working visa...
:)
You change your original topic to LOVE????
Now, read my first post, I sounds like id***! LoL!
Knoxcollege,
At least you should have a feeling of love for that maid who brought you up.
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ok sue me..will wait for the subpoena..and did i say that love sucks big time?...
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c",) love, respect & humility
All Rights Reserved i am going to Sue you lil tiny toon get it right :D
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LOVE, i will copy Darude's definition of love (hope you dont mind stallion)..love sucks!....big time...
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c",) love, respect & humility
There. I change the topic for the reader not being confused. HEhehehe.
Sensitive knowledgeable poeple are those who are highly aware of their surrounding. their pain threshold is different than others.
But what you just said "you might see me helping the people in Africa" and "thousands of people dying every day " is mere sheer LOVE.
You cannot give, feel for others, share others' pain, weakness, disability, unless you are able to love.
That is what I was talking about.
I am terribly sorry, but I have to sign off now. I can barely keep my eyes open.
Talk to you later
"The true measure of a man is how he treats
someone who can do absolutely nothing for him".
knoxcollege gets ready to go to another new college
you might see me one day getting some research grant but not in a tuxedo. you might see me helping the people in africa but not with a ring.
how can we people be happy when there are thousands of people dying every day becaise of aids, hunger, war and natural calamaties
love from someone who has spent his life growing up in the hands of a maid and who spent a big part of his life living in hostels and residence halls and meeting new people after every four months. How can you expect love from someone who learned the tricks and the trade and life by falling and hurting himself on every step and then vowing never to depend on anyone
Usually sensitive people act and think the way you just described love/not love.
It is very ok. Just remember that by love I mean all and any kind of love.
So good luck. Looks like you will invite us to you wedding soon!!
I cannot tell you how fast it happens, just before you know it..))and you still can adopt for sure..
Dont mark your words. You still did not meet the girl that could hit your heart:))) hopefully soon!
man! man! man! tsk tsk....
you can say that.....although there are many more reasons
I might never get married but to continue my race I will adopt an orphan.
call me whatever you want
Working visa turned into LOVE. Gosh!! don't we all want to breathe love for life...
Zero_cool, we are so sorry!!
Knox... I know and understand what you are talking about. Love makes you feel weaker and less secure because you feel your mood, life and feeling are dependent on someone else.
You feel less powerful because you are sharing with another.
You feel insecure waiting for the bad to happen. Whatever that might be.
So, you end up covering up your heart and molding it into steel, making sure you keep it intact to your self under your chest.
Is that it?
it is highly impossible that i will ever fall in love. i might one day be attracted to someone physically but the feeling of love, the purity of love, the passion of love, i highly doubt will ever come to me
at my life after 20 years i will see many people coming in and out, with some leaving a mark and some leaving their stains. But the big question for me would be what role did i play and how good was my performance
So you'd never been in love? oh, that's too bad! don't you love yourself? your mom, your dad, sis, brod?
I hope you'll fell in love very soon, knox. Trust me its an amaaaazing-wonderful feelings:)))
P/S
A working visa thread turns into Love thread, tsk tsk tsk
I feel love is a creation of insecurity and you overcome that insecurity by expressing or showing love to someone.
I was highly popular during my high school, but i rejected every girl's friendship at that time. as i have never met a girl who has been able to ignite my feelings. i dont know why i just like talking to people. be it guys or girls and then thats all. Whenever a girl has approached me i have felt that if i ever said that i love her, it would mean that i am losing a part of myself and insecurity prevailed. so i have never been in love
i have had many friends. friends who have emailed me, called me but i have never replied them back. I make new friends and forget the old ones. and the cycle goes on
i have made friends in different countries and have lost touch with them all. call me insecure
This is hypocrisy, greed, ill intention, personal- interest seeking...that is no where near love.
Love is transparent with no stains because you ask for nothing in return.
Be it loving your mother, Allah (God), friend, wife, colleague, human, cat....etc, still it is unconditional stream of running softness, even if not confessed to the other party.
I think you just have been using the wrong term.
"Love makes you feel the pain of too much tenderness"
Gibran Khalil Gibran
What do you called of someone's feelings towards you because you got loads of money? is it really love? Hmmm, me? i dont know either;)
which love are u talking about? motherly love, fatherly love, and all other types of love are attracted to money. I was reading desperate's comments in which he has talked about love. you do remember his posts?
All the hollywood stars are loved by their parents just bcoz they have money.
Sometimes the truth is bitter and hard to admit
Love & Happiness can never be bought, agreed!
Love can never be Bo bought. It is not on the market and never on sale either.
"Love is not a mere sentiment. It is the ultimate truth that lies at the heart of creation."
Rabindranath Tagore
can buy anything even love
but its illegal! a sisterly advise, dont put yourself at risk:)