...and we all have sex.

Men, it is said, are more visually stumulated than women.

Therfore men will buy it.

Therefore people think it is a male dominant / abusive thing.

I love it I will admit, but I am aware that people are abused in the making of [some] of it.

On the other hand, if I was built for it and had the staying power.

I wouldn't be messing about with pipe drawings for 14 hours a day.

Titilation in my mind can be much better.

Lace and a bit of skin can be much more exiting.