and what about the wives that cheat on their husbands. what about the ones that "cannot stand living here anymore"...then go backto their homes and hook up with someone there because their husbands are locked into a contract here? life is not easy for a woman in this country. nothing going on culturally, not a lot socially, options are very limited. so my question is: does it not go equally for women? or are they just more discreet here?