Butterfly i hope you never find yourself the slave of any man, because if you did, you would not be fulfilling your role as slave to Allah. Men and women are equals and they complement each others shortcomings if they first learn to control and discipline themselves. Sex is a weapon and a tool as are many things. I read recently in an issue of Jumah magazine a woman's comment about not blaming the car because a drunk driver ran over someone.

You are a slave butterfly, you didn't create yourself.