As a recovering sex addict I can tell you one thing your mindset doesn't matter nor your race. In the game the only rule is to win by any means necessary and that includes lying. I have been celibate now for going on 11 years. Not by choice, but by command. I converted to Islam and since then my spirituality and desire to increase in Knowledge have replaced other urges. I have been engaged since entering Islam , but for one reason or another it didn't work out and I'm proud to say that sex wasn't the issue. It was getting to know one another, before making critical decesions and then having regrets. This thread should focus on the divorce rate today. It appears marriage these days is another form of hustling panties. Also, you missed the point that makes adultery such a huge social crime ( the affect it has on the community not just the adulterers).

qd06 nice comments keep it coming. I believe the CIA. "LIES". thankfully the statistic stating Muslim one are the most highly educated women with the most high level degrees was independent. Alhamdulillah not just Muslim women can think, Non-muslim women entering Islam are the fastest growing group still to this day.

sorry gotta go

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