To think that you can keep your spouse from cheating by doing all the right things to keep him or her happy is, at best, naive.
Not all spouses cheat, but those that do, will do it regardless of whether you are subservient, equal, or superior to him or her.
And, it is quite common that many Western men (married or not)AND many Asian women equally pursue these "win-win" relationships. To deny this is also quite naive.
I'm with the original poster - do what floats your boat, but is it quite necessary to flaunt your indiscretions in the face of your friends, co-workers, and neighbors?
To think that you can keep your spouse from cheating by doing all the right things to keep him or her happy is, at best, naive.
Not all spouses cheat, but those that do, will do it regardless of whether you are subservient, equal, or superior to him or her.
And, it is quite common that many Western men (married or not)AND many Asian women equally pursue these "win-win" relationships. To deny this is also quite naive.
I'm with the original poster - do what floats your boat, but is it quite necessary to flaunt your indiscretions in the face of your friends, co-workers, and neighbors?