" I would love to understand how a european wifes take care their hubby?"

According to my husband, caring-wives in France spread the butter onto the toasts for their husbands. Or so he says whenever he wants toasts for breakfast!

On a serious note, I thought the word "slave" was a pretty bad choice too. I don't know how to answer your question...For me is just enjoying the little time I spend wiht my husband and making the most of it.