Princess,

You really haven't been around Muslim women...... In my opinion they sometimes have more thoughts,opinions and jewelry than "liberated" women. :-)
Again a joke so don't send the liberated women mafia after me. Terra just marry someone older by that time the mother in laws are to busy with other kids and grandkids to meddle so much :-) or as a Indian friend told me move to a place with a lot of stairs and you will never have to worry about your inlaws visiting :-)

Act your age not your shoe size