Tinker, You are right. You are representing one kind of Women. :)

I know women for whom a dominant man would feel like a bully. These women seek men who are almost as soft as they are. I also know women who avoid dominant men for political reasons in spite of themselves, but that's another story. One friend of mine and her man have told me that they love each other because they are both “soft and giving”.

But there are women who want to be lead by Men.