Yeah I sure know how that feels.. Sometimes breaking up with a friend can be as, if not more, traumatic as splitting with a spouse/partner. Ditto with conversations turning hostile. However I must say I am not the aggressive sort, hence whoever argues with me is safe from any verbal abuse and insults! And yeah more often than not I am the one who makes initiatives towards making peace, even when I am not at fault. Human relationships are far more important than our own egos, and life is too short to waste time going into logger heads.