I am active in few other online forums too, have got few virtual girl friends, few penpals and so many Sanil Mailers..but to be honest QL reduced the gap of my virtual and personal life.. Sometimes I can forget the name of a person whom I met casually three four times but I could never forget few QL Ids.. Eventhough I did not meet anyone of you so far in real life but it makes me feel that I have so many people to talk with diverse perceptions... interesting part is that wn someone makes you angry here someone is there to hug you too... (: some of us have issues but I love the moderation of this web site as it cuts everything which will make u to be unfit in real multicultural social circle.