This depends on them and what they think is better for them, I personally will not accept it, and at the same time I can not tell them to do certain things.
I hate to intefere in others people personal life, but here in QL living there some people take it personally and they think that we are speaking about them.
I never care what people say about me as long as I know what I am doing is correct.
We have to put in our mind the following sentence:
"Statisfying All is impossible"