How about those mothers/fathers who are single parents? What's their option? My sister faces this predicament quite often when my mom(who generally looks after her son) travels abroad. She has no husband hence she has no option but to work and leave him in daycare etc.
Besides education is so expensive in the ME that sometimes even smaller families have to struggle to make ends meet. This is one of the reasons many ladies I know go out to work.
See no one expects such horrible things to happen to them.. at least not everyone does. And when you hire a maid/nanny, and have done everything in your power to ensure you made a right and trustworthy choice, you just trust that your baby/property is in safe hands. It's then the one who betrays the trust who is the wrongdoer here and who should be held accountable.