Gracia really i did convince u ?... nice.. it's always a pleasure to me when i am able to give some people hope for their lives let alone in love.. U know what..u seem a sweet lady and a smart one. Maybe just maybe those past 2 men in ur life were just did not know how to handle u properly. Courtship is a never ending thing for a man.. I think when they found out that u love them then they stopped courting u anymore which is not the case when u truly love a person no matter what. Who knows the next man for u is just around the corner ;)