IF you are talking just about QL then i dont think its only the men that are being cruel and rude. Women here are pretty much the same behaving like their are still in high school where any guy who talks to them is trying to "flirt" or have a relationship with them. Also when certain people dont find others agreeing with their own views does not mean they are rude.

You've never met kind men thats your own personal opinion, I've met a LOT of kind men and women right here in Qatar.