Every country has their culture and you cant just blame parents, watching out for their children, taking all the hardships and then when the children grow up they say I love this guy/ gal without even considering their parents expectations. Today many children dont stop to consider the culture, religion or family of their partner, the impact it could have on their parents. That doesnt mean you should marry anyone, take their point of view and marry with their consent. Parents blessings are very important their tears are valuable. Just remember that everyone tomorrow becomes a parent.