"..I'd say it's quite simple...IF and when men send drinks or buy stuff for a woman they do not know, they have ONE thing and ONE thing only in mind.....so, I'd say it is not necessarily flattering to be offered those things. ..."

I agree with nomerci on this, think this seems to be the a strong argument, I think she maybe a flirt and thats why she has encountered such behavior from lecherous men who are always having that ONE thing in mind.

Also, this maybe the reason why her some women were jealous of her because they might be worried because of her flirtatious nature...

So I think the incidents she narrates is correct however the reasoning which she gave maybe wrong...