maria you are arab lady , and you know we can understand each other easily .. wives open the door for husbands for cheating through maid gate .. and much of ladies just setting in her homes and has maids .. why why ?? i was not talking about working ladies .. for me i dont trust to eat any food from hands of others except my mother and my wife , also: i dont trust any body in the life to care of my bebe except his real mom , and also need my wife to feedbreast her son .. i dont trust cow milk .. my bebe will be cow in the future if his mom didnt feedbreast him .. by the way i am single , but this is my plan