is based on religious obedience. It can't be separated. What I am driving at is, if we only let he commandments rule our marital life, then obedience of woman to her man is as commanded in the same way that man was commanded to respect and treasure his wife. Each has his/her own responsibilities in raising the family. But sadly, laws of men tries to outdo HIS commandments so the reason why we have a lot of marital problems right now!