I think the concept of being a "obedient wife" is a little outdated by now. It seems certain cultures have not noticed that yet.
Husband and wife are equal, in every way.There is no need for obediency. They have to respect each other, ideally should love each other...and that should do the trick.

It actually makes me a little sick that women are spouting such nonsense as Maznah Taufik did..and others are actually following her...a sad day for womankind...a bit embarrassing, really.