Fathima, agree with you (although piety is not one of my requirements),but a feminine looking man would certainly not be attractive to me.
Also agree with that money is not wholly unimportant. As I would like to be with a man equal to me in education and background, and such a man would not be poor.

A lot of people say, at least where I come from, that love conquers all...well, not quite ...it sure does not feed an empty stomach...and an empty stomach makes people testy...and that leads to problems...and there you have it!