What attracts the Women?

WTF ppl every body is sharing their exp... not cool for me.......

i agree with some of what you guys are saying:

Some girls are real some are fake-but so are some men!

First attraction (i think on both sides) is the person's appearance...if that is positive then there will be that curiosity and interest that makes you want to know more about that person...As you get to know them more you'll find out whether they're sincere and genuine or boring as hell and have no brains! You can have a kickass car and lots of money, but if you're empty on the inside, then you have nothing to offer-sorry...On the other hand, if you're a man of modest means and are working towards a goal and we can have endless conversation, lots of laughs n giggles, heart 2 heart talks and show that you're interested in what i am doing with my life and what i want to do, are encouraging and honest in your praise-but gentle with your criticism-then you're my kind of guy:) it also helps if you smell really nice, love to hug and give kisses hehehe....man...i am dreamy-eyed now at 5:30 AM!! okay-so where was i????? looolzzzz...get the point fellas??? we aren't that complicated!!!! oh ya, did i mention pleasant to the eyes? And im talking about a man who looks like a man-not like leo dicaprio-no girly men!! lool

I love the way you've done your hair.. by the way, what nail varnish are you using ?

Ladylady you want to become a nun right?

So you want a tall , not skinny Filipino boy who is manly and likes doing your hair and nails...hmmm, should be easy to find....

I'm going to go with effeminate black tank tops.

Seriously, a good paying career that gives you enough time to have a life outside of work, confidence in who you are, a genuine interest in what she has to say.

i agree drsam, personally, i am attracted not to physical appearance, but to how i converse with the man, you'll get to know he's not a hollow person.

but to add it to, women are attracted to what they smell. :)

Some real, some fake. That's the way things are.

well i think first things attracts is "the way of taking of boy & how he engages her in conversations and sense of humor (good humor).make her laugh ".this is what most important in first meeting

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offffffcourse ........looks and personality which mostly girls judge in the second meeting ......minimum cariteria is atleast the boy should have sense how to dressup? becoz even some handsome boys wears open shoes or joggers with formal trouser hehehe

and after passing in second test then she(girls) checks that the boy is sincere ,trust worthy and caring or not? (but every boy is sincere n caring becoz we r stupids so definitely the boys pass this third test )

this is how any relationship starts......

financial stability comes in last and not so important because its the last thing(test) when boy propose her or girls want to live whole life with that boy.......

*Note= if in the second meeting boy comes in ferrari with an iphone so it becomes the part of his personality ,its plus point :-)

*Tip for boys= Girls like the boys who are careless but they do care her very much ...and also take care of things which that girl likes.....

*tip for Boys= Boy should have good reputation in the friends of that girls ...because girl dont think by themselves ,they just follow the opinions of her experianced friends...(girls please dont mind,its unfortunately true)

*my Request ---- Girls= dont just follow the Opinions of ur friends but listen to your heart what it says about that boy ,seroiusly boys are good 95%

Its Frustration and Boredom yes!This is it for what these guys are criticizing women.Look at the other side, men are Unlimited Selfish toward women, and even their daily activities and enjoyment always relies on pocket of their work mate or friend.

Harsh But True :-|

I think it's pretty obvious that the first thing u will see is the appearance. If you look good and feel good about yourself, some women might fall for you. But after that, you should have some "cash" with you, co'z admit it or not, women love to be pampered. And by pampering means spending.. :D

i totally agree with fatimah's comments

A very broad question? I think you should consider the background of the women and try to know that woman personally. Don't jump into conclusion that all women are attracted to money.Some women wants money for practicality reason but not the general population of women. These is an old rugged topic that has been always been debated in campus. But it gives fresh good insights until now. ^^

lol question :D what attracts the women ? loads and loads of things but i guess most women don't want to disclose it :p

ketan honestly we could make a movie out of our life, a true rags to ritches story. and Rizks i was pregnant so i had gastric problems anyway hahaha

bread butter and beans ?

didnt u had gastic problems ? :)

ur love story reminds me of some bollywood movie

u cant say women just want money... thats so ignorant and closed minded. have you realy lost all faith the the oposit sex?? wen i first met my husband he had nothing and i was born into a welthy familly. evryone was againsed us so we ran off and eloped. we had hardly no money and a baby on the way so we litrelly ate bread butter and beans evry day for evry meal for a long long time and i was the happiest woman alive!!

men are attracted by what they see (their eyes)

women are attracted but what they hear (their ears)

Women wishes a remote control hubby !

woman likes a man who listen and understand , helps and give good wisdom ... mature love comes later on after on going events ... the woman are all great if you know how to take care of her no matter how hard times she is going to give you ,, judge by the heart ,, never from figure ,, roses my look beautiful yet they sting you ,, be careful of choice ,,, wisdom is needed to man and woman alike

WK doesn't have eyebrow..only eyelashes.

brit and WK...now, the attraction is NOT money, but it is a necessary bi-product. After all, who in their right mind would like to start a family with no money?

And WK...your eyebrow is seriously S e x e y!!!

the good thing is that we've at least confirmed that most surveys are tosh and that women ARE attracted to men with money ....

Which leaves you and I in a pickle :O(

Damn and Brit told me licking my eyebrow with my tongue will attract women :(

well well.o guess u all are unluck ones,

i get cards instead .guess either am lucky or my gf,s aree rich perhaps :P

Dont regret for anything u give if she didnt ask u for it. I'm pretty sure, u got something from her also!!!

I guess its just one of those things many women do consider to an extent but would hardly voice it out for the fear of been misjudged and called a gold digger.However even now when my unmarried mates speak of men they are considering and mention that whilst he seems an ok bet in many departments but seems to be financially unstable with debts etc I tell them to think it over carefully and that honestly if it was me I would not marry the guy unless he has a fixed solution to his dilemmas. Specially in cases of women who wish to give up working once married and preggers.

-first, should look like a MAN (hate "birdy" feminine faces a-la Leo Dicaprio)

-selfconfidence (not ego!), ability to assure you in "stable tomorrow"

- witty-minded, curious, self-developing (hate retarded and frozen); the one with whom you won't die of boredom

- ability to find solution to the problem, when necessary

- financial stability, not necessary billionaire

I think nothing extraordinary.. as sometimes the guys blame us, girls, that we need a superman. No need superman, just a down-to-earth MAN.

Fathimah, I think financial trials can be hard anytime! I really do not understand people who say money does not matter...it simply does! Especially if you don't have it.

Of course, one should not marry FOR money, that is nasty, but completely not consider it at all? Now that's stupid IMHO.

I mean seriously, why are we all here? For the dusty air?

I think not!

Which clearly proves that money DOES matter.

I do wear a very tight pink bellbottom pants and woman are always checking and looking.. The fun part about it, they end up having cross eyes, once they finsihed looking at my tight pants surrounding my groin area.

"it sure does not feed an empty stomach...and an empty stomach makes people testy...and that leads to problems...and there you have it!" That I agree with 100%.. specially in the first few years of your life together financial trials can be very very hard!

Please don't!

Fathima, agree with you (although piety is not one of my requirements),but a feminine looking man would certainly not be attractive to me.

Also agree with that money is not wholly unimportant. As I would like to be with a man equal to me in education and background, and such a man would not be poor.

A lot of people say, at least where I come from, that love conquers all...well, not quite ...it sure does not feed an empty stomach...and an empty stomach makes people testy...and that leads to problems...and there you have it!

Thankyou. Does that mean that i don't have to shave my beard and trim my monobrow to find my true love ?

not all girls is for money,, no no no...

well baazigar its your fault giving your ex a diamond ring even you dont know her so well:(

"Men with feminine faces will be luckier in love as more women are attracted to them" well I'm certainly not one of theses women..IMO a man has to look like a man! That said I cant say there's any one thing in particular I looked for in a man. More like a combination of piety as far as religion goes(from what is apparent of course), looks, personality,and financial stability too. So while I cannot say money didn't matter to me,cos it did to an extent, it was a part of many things I wanted in a husband and certainly not THE most important thing!

SECURITY:-)

we r just useless really.

we r just sick about s..! :(

hahah i dont fall for hala card anymore already a girl proposed me..........dont give a daammm care......

you forgot vodafone :(

And what do the men want?

yes, my friend u r correct, u can never think what in mind of girl 99% they wants money.

What Is Love? Umm,

For A Boy: It Is That Stupid Nervousness

Before Proposing A Girl.

For A Girl : It Is That Excitement Of Standing

Before A Nervous Boy :P

yeah its simple to say.......risk is....in doing it....

Size?

NEVER - love for money. It is wrong to tar us all with the same brush.

I married for love; simple as and so did most of the women I know.

i had an affair with a girl for a year....she was fair cute face but fat....still i loved her so much and i believed her that she did not hav any bf in past.i thought she is fat maybe no one flirted with her.i gifted her a diamond ring.....after a year i came to know she had more bf as my friend saw her out with another guy......fat beautifull aall girls are fake....

yeah i read it too.....its all lie....all girls look for money in guys.....thats all....

very hard to believe a girl....that she really loves a guys heart.

money attracts women most