Before you say you are white, check you english............white people dont have such a rubbish grammer and spelling mistakes.......from your language and they way you you express we can make out from where you are.............you said parents are useless!!!!!!!!!!!they are useless only bcoz they brought children like you. For us parents our most valuable part in this world. Yes I agree that visiting family every now and then is fine but staying with parents with out any distraction and providing them quality time is impossible when you go on vaccations. It would be more easy to bring them here and stay with them for 2-3 months. After all which country provides a visit visa more than six months........Be gentle when you comment on some one....Please.........