i don't want to jump to a religious discussion here but there is no harm in mentioning the following especially for women.

in islam , man should earn the money and provide a good living to his family "as much as he can,not necessarily being rich".

woman should raise the kids and help them and support them, there is no objection in letting the woman work and everyone is saying the opposite then he is talking about culture not religion".

the money that woman earn is for herself only and the man has no right to take it from her.

and one more thing, and a lot of muslims don't know about it.
the contract of marriage in islam is not obligate the woman to cook or clean for her husband, but she is doing this in the name of love and good living and for her kids to live a good life.
but she is obligated to help her kids. in what she is good in.
and God only knows the truth and may guide us to it, walla a3lam