I know one couple. They love each other from the school time. They both are muslims, but belong to kind of bit different confessions or so... Now they are waiting for...12 years (!!)for the girl's father approval of their marriage.. How many times the guy tried to convince the father!! And father doesn't look to give up their positions any soon..The girl said, she will either marry the man she loves, or not going to marry at all.. even THIS didn't convince her father.. does he hate his daughter that much?? doesn't he want her to be happy?? ridiculous!!