I found out recently that a relation of mine's wife just gave birth to a terribly deformed child..you know the kind who can't do anything..paralyzed.. its their first child. When my daughter acts all naughty or blabbers non stop I pause to remember the blessing I have of a fit and able child, Alhamdullilah. I must admit I definitely have anger management issues at times, but again, Alhamdullilah, with time its gotten easier. and her starting school has too made things better. Perhaps you'll find it easier too once he starts schooling. By the time he gets home the kiddo will be too tired to do much mischief, Inshallah =D