I can't believe how some people can be mean. Crystal you have to use your head and not just your heart. Apple is right. if he wants to marry you he can marry you as soon as possible. He is not free. But do you really want to spend the rest of your life as a second wife and being hated by your in laws? I am sure you can find another man who is single. A man you can call your own and not have to share with another woman. Its hard enough having a relationship with a man of different culture, what more with a man who has no balls. Sorry, thats what he is. I know a lot of women who went through this. But the ending is all the same. The men had no balls to stand up to their families. And they are single men. not like your bf.

Wake up girl. Move on. Forget him.