Use your head girl. Do you want to be a second wife? And that too without the first wife knowing? You will have to "share" your hubby. Are you willing to do that? Depending on the circumstances, during diffcult phases of your married life, you won't be able to go to him or his family for help or support. Can lead to a lot of fights and frustation. Can you cope with that? And what about when you have kids? What rights will they have?

Think it through carefully girl.