lemontree im in love with a muslim man. he proposed to me but its not that romantic at all because i will be a second wife :( im not used to this at all but the dice has been rolled and there is no turning back for me. he has taken a first wife and tried to get a divorce but there are some legal issues like the rights he has to pay. he has been trying to settle things with the first wife to try and have an amicable divorce but her family will not accept it. as of now he cannot afford to pay the rights since its not a paltry sum. now he wants to move forward and be married to me but that would mean i have to be a second wife. please let me know your thoughts really appreciate it.