Since your from USA , QAR 10,000 per month may only suffice your grocery , car , petrol , telephone , internet , eat -outs , bowling /pool , drinks and shopping expenses . Ideally QAR 30,000 is sufficient including HRA . Anything higher is better . Maybe few trips to dubai and you can meet girls there easily at pubs in burdubai or deira . So add QAR 2500 for one trip per month to dubai and expenses . So you gonna struggle it seems with this paltry QAR 10000 salary per month .