I love it....

"but what if my husband has beed cheating for years now? and his wife is always a nagger and a very negative person..."

I have yet to hear of a man who is having an affair tell his mistress that his wife is a wonderful loving person and he is a wank for cheating.

If your love interests excuse for cheating is that hiswife is a nagging negative person, what is your husbands excuse for cheating on you?