Each one of us has our own way of getting married. It varies from country to country with its culture and tradition. In the early days of my granny, infact they have to bring back one enemy's head from battle to prove to the women that he is a man who can guarantee future security to his prospective bride. The more heads, the more women would like to marry him. Now isn't this strange. Of course its not in practice today. Not me, not even my avatar. The bottom line is we have to respect each other tradition. cheers!