SW's personal comments and understanding on such marriages are extremely POOR and in bad taste....
There is absolutely no need to get intimate before marriage.....It requires sense of maturity, understanding of marital commitments and additional responsibilities the contract demands. Post marriage, she is 'NOT with a stranger on bed' but HER life partner.
Marriage is not a purchase deal/transaction but a social way of living together as Spouse within the Family and act as Shadows for eachother. Meher in Islam is considered A special gift of the husband to His wife
The amount of Meher is a Future security for women.
Compulsory Marital Gift for a Woman:
When she gets married, she is on the receiving end.
She receives a gift - she receives a dower or a marital gift, which is called as ‘Meher'
And it is mentioned in the Qur’an in Surah Nisa, Ch.4 Verse No.4 which says, ‘Give to the woman in dower, a marital gift. For a marriage to solemnize in Islam, ‘Meher is compulsory
@SW...I feel you live under high influence of local traditions without understanding the purpose/reasoning of basic islamic/marriage rules.
SW's personal comments and understanding on such marriages are extremely POOR and in bad taste....
There is absolutely no need to get intimate before marriage.....It requires sense of maturity, understanding of marital commitments and additional responsibilities the contract demands. Post marriage, she is 'NOT with a stranger on bed' but HER life partner.
Marriage is not a purchase deal/transaction but a social way of living together as Spouse within the Family and act as Shadows for eachother. Meher in Islam is considered A special gift of the husband to His wife
The amount of Meher is a Future security for women.
Compulsory Marital Gift for a Woman:
When she gets married, she is on the receiving end.
She receives a gift - she receives a dower or a marital gift, which is called as ‘Meher'
And it is mentioned in the Qur’an in Surah Nisa, Ch.4 Verse No.4 which says, ‘Give to the woman in dower, a marital gift. For a marriage to solemnize in Islam, ‘Meher is compulsory
@SW...I feel you live under high influence of local traditions without understanding the purpose/reasoning of basic islamic/marriage rules.