I am thinking to do that... great civilized idea..

Om Maui and Olive: no, I don't wish my husband to get involved. My husband is the most decent man you'd ever meet and I don't want him to get insulted by this guy, right in my office space!!
Besides, I seriously don't think this is the way to solve this... male or female, I am a damn senior manager (and before being so, I am an employee and a human being!!!!) in this company and I deserve respect.

Tess: no, nothing is personal against me. Before me, many many complained... and nothing changed. There was a British lady who was working in my place.. and kept complaining with no response... she then resigned!!!