Said Paul...I agree with you to a certain extent...one get trapped in a cultural confusion, when going thru the situation you mentioned BUT does this make any sense to open up such concerns in the Open Public forum?

She should go and meet Qatar cultural and heritage & law ministers to discuss about the creation of liberal and free muslim society...rather moaning here and asking for solution or amend Laws to your very own convenience.

Even if I consume alcohol and use contraceptives; shall I stand at the rooftop and announce it publicly?

Live life respectfully, don't disgrace your parents, if they provided you with Western education, apply yur skills and knowledge for the benefit to yourself and society at whole

Thanks
Peace