IF you had the ability to let your children live in luxoury wouldnt you do that . COme on , Who are you going to leave your money too , your self . That is what i saw in the western world , the family is wealthy and the children are working in macdonalds to earn a life. So whats the point for them to suffer if we can let them life a descent life and give them what they want , or hold the money from them and see them being tortured their whole life and when i grow old and then they will inhernet my money when they grow old and suffered .
I agree that you haven't got anyone to leave your money to but your kids. But let me remind you one thing people around these parts forget, ISRAF IS HARAM. Do you know why the west is always rich, and will always be rich? Because they teach their kids the MEANING of money. They teach their kids to be productive members of society instead of being PARASITES. I am pretty sure that back in the day young kids here were taught to work the land, to fish, to help with chores, like in any place of modest wealth. There is no torture in learning how to earn your own bread and make your own wealth. When you spoil a kid, when you teach him that smashing up a car is nothing, that destroying, wasting money means nothing, then he will never respect hard work and devotion. Easy come, easy go. It is one thing to reward, to keep up with society and it's norms, but to deliberately spoil, you are ruining these kids, destroying them.
WHY WHY PEOPLE ARE JELOUSE OF US THAT WE HAVE KHADAMAS , CARS , HOUSES everything they would dream of and they would even dream that their pearnts treated them the way we treat our kids
I sure ain't. In my country it is a shame to have a "khadama". It means the family is unfit to meet their domestic needs. Either someone in the household is disabled or has a problem if they have a "khadama". Granted the average household doesn't have as many kids and we don't build such huge houses. Cars, well most people have cars. I actually prefer good public transportation to having to drive, park...I'm not jealous of any people from the gulf. They had it rough for centuries and now in the last 50 years they had some luck, they deserve it, for sticking to their land through thick and thin.
IF you had the ability to let your children live in luxoury wouldnt you do that . COme on , Who are you going to leave your money too , your self . That is what i saw in the western world , the family is wealthy and the children are working in macdonalds to earn a life. So whats the point for them to suffer if we can let them life a descent life and give them what they want , or hold the money from them and see them being tortured their whole life and when i grow old and then they will inhernet my money when they grow old and suffered .
I agree that you haven't got anyone to leave your money to but your kids. But let me remind you one thing people around these parts forget, ISRAF IS HARAM. Do you know why the west is always rich, and will always be rich? Because they teach their kids the MEANING of money. They teach their kids to be productive members of society instead of being PARASITES. I am pretty sure that back in the day young kids here were taught to work the land, to fish, to help with chores, like in any place of modest wealth. There is no torture in learning how to earn your own bread and make your own wealth. When you spoil a kid, when you teach him that smashing up a car is nothing, that destroying, wasting money means nothing, then he will never respect hard work and devotion. Easy come, easy go. It is one thing to reward, to keep up with society and it's norms, but to deliberately spoil, you are ruining these kids, destroying them.
WHY WHY PEOPLE ARE JELOUSE OF US THAT WE HAVE KHADAMAS , CARS , HOUSES everything they would dream of and they would even dream that their pearnts treated them the way we treat our kids
I sure ain't. In my country it is a shame to have a "khadama". It means the family is unfit to meet their domestic needs. Either someone in the household is disabled or has a problem if they have a "khadama". Granted the average household doesn't have as many kids and we don't build such huge houses. Cars, well most people have cars. I actually prefer good public transportation to having to drive, park...I'm not jealous of any people from the gulf. They had it rough for centuries and now in the last 50 years they had some luck, they deserve it, for sticking to their land through thick and thin.