BA, I don't think anyone was rude or judgemental of your personal life. You asked for information about Qatar. We gave it. I'm sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear. Please understand that everyone who wrote did so out of concern for your questions and your safety. Obviously we don't know you or your boyfriend, if we suggested things that do not apply to you, feel free to ignore them. But we have provided correct information about Qatar. You may not have troubles as Qatarisun said but since you asked you do need to know the customs, traditions and laws here.
Mandi