I meant what you read dear. We don't need anymore local men getting involved with foreigners. Yes it is their life and they are free to do as they please, but when it comes to the local women -- a trillion question marks come up. SO -- as I said, since he isn't a local, hayach allah.

But why would you fly all the way out here to be with him? He should fly out to you to be with you. And if needed, fly you back over WITH HIM, legally :D

And a lot of be carefuls and warnings are because there have been too many cases which turned out bad - for both parties .. So, again, be careful :)